TEEJ
Teej, observed by Hindu women folk, is celebrated on the third day of the waxing moon of Bhadra, Hasta Nachhatra, according to the lunar calendar.
Women in red attire, red bangles and red tika on the forehead are seen visiting the various Shiva temples in their locality. The most popular among them is the Pashupati Nath temple.
Hindu scriptures has it that those married women who fast on this day will be blessed for their husband’s longevity, good health and the strong marital bond where as unmarried will find suitable husband. According to Purana, Hindu scripture, Goddess Parvita fasted and kept vigil throughout this night and worshipped the Lord to have him as her husband and she was blessed accordingly.
Thenceforth, the celebration of Teej started. Nepali women due to the geographical inaccessibility in past times could not visit their parents frequently. Thus, this is a day for the marrieds in year when they visit their parents and reunite with their other siblings and friends. The reunion is marked with songs and dances.
The night before Teej is widely known as Dar khane Din in local term. The womenfolk prepare various delicacies and eat the whole night because on the Teej day they won’t take a morsel. The legend has it that on this day one who fast should not drink a drop of water either. But with changing times such unpractical traditions are changing slowly. Singing and dancing ladies then visit Shiva temples in their localities in groups.
Kathmanduites specially visit Pashupatinath temple on this day. Teej or Haritalika, is considered a necessary ritual in Hindu society, especially Shaibaities (women) must observe this. There is no such obligation for the sick, old and pregnant. If a wife cannot fast and worship the Lord then the husband has to do so, the Hindu scriptures say. Our traditions are falsified in the passing of times and given wrong interpretation by some pundits. Thus today they may seem discriminatory. But accoeding to the Hindu scriptures, men and women share equal responsibility in a family.
The fourth day of Bhadra is called Ganesh Chauthi. According to the Skanda Puran, on this day Lord Ganesh was born. “Those, men and women, who fast and worship Lord Ganesh on this day are blessed with the uninterrupted from all the chaos of life.”
The fifth day is called Rishi Panchami. On the Rishi panchami day women folk pay homage to the Sapta Rishis - the seven sagas.